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Marriage Still Matters

wedding_16Numbness in conscience inflicts many of the members of our modern society. It is as if people have lost the capacity to distinguish between right and wrong. The values of traditional faith and Scripture are not taken into consideration as credible when moral decisions are made. Further, there is a rupture between our nature and the laws that can be discerned by reason. This leads to a profound disconnect from objective reality. Instead, the notion that man is the measure of all things is extended to a fanciful absurdity. The unborn child in the womb is denied the personhood that comes along with his very presence. The purpose of the marital act is reduced to recreation with the reproductive ends subtracted by contraception. The bodies of men and women are complementary and yet same-sex attraction is made into a legal right even though it is a fiction and not fact. The aberration is counted as normal and any emphasis upon genuine normalcy is discounted as intolerance. The institution of marriage is bombarded by all sorts of threats: divorce, adultery, fornication, cohabitation, etc. Any stigma or embarrassment for having children outside of wedlock is measured as insensitive and mean-spirited. Marriage is regarded as a mere piece of paper, even by Catholics who were taught that it was a sacrament to give grace.

What a mess with which we are living!

Msgr. Pope rightly laments on his blog that many regard “living” in sin as “no big deal.” The misnomer here is that one does not really LIVE in sin; instead, one begins to DIE in sin. Sin by its very definition brings forth suffering and death. It alienates us from the one who created us and from the life present in the soul.

Pastors are challenged when they preach about sin and punishment. They are challenged for stressing judgment when our Lord was apparently all about mercy and love. However, the dispensation of Christ is neither magic nor capricious. You have to love in return. You have to want to be forgiven. Too many live as if there will be no judgment and no hell. While the catechism teaches about the universal call to salvation, this is not the heresy of universalism. God’s gifts can be ignored or rejected. Using a medical analogy, a doctor might be able to treat you but you must be willing to seek him out. The divine physician would heal our souls, but millions prefer the spiritual sickness that comes with hedonism, greed or a spiritual ennui.

I like straight talk and yet such is almost always found offensive by someone. People these days do not like to be told their business. There is an arrogance to sin today that has smothered the guilt that once brought contrition and repentance. Do you want proof? Tell a couple who are having sex outside of marriage that unless they repent they will go to hell. See how they respond. “What we do is none of your business! Who are you to talk to us that way? You can go to hell, yourself! Who are you to judge? We love each other, what is so wrong with that? Who is being hurt by what we do?” The fact that it violates God’s Word is given little or no measure in their evaluation. What they are really saying is this: “No one can tell us what to do, not you and NOT God!”

Msgr. Pope gives us a list of Scriptures that we would do well to review.  If we believe that the Bible is God’s Word, then we should take to heart the saving message:

  • Matthew 5:27-30; 15:19-20
  • Mark 7:21
  • 1 Corinthians 6:9-11, 15-20
  • Galatians 5:16-21
  • Ephesians 5:3-7
  • Colossians 3:5-6
  • 1 Thessalonians 4:1-8
  • 1 Timothy 1:8-11
  • Hebrews 13:4
  • Revelation 21:5-8; 22:14-16

2 Responses

  1. Father I come from a community where marriages can be arranged by the parents of the couple.
    Recently I rejected this certain proposal I got.
    Here’s the story..this boy being the only son, looks after the family food business even though he is an educated lawyer.
    The father laid conditions such as, I must not work, I must not support my parents financially after marriage, I should cook for his family etc..in fact he got offended when he learned that I do not know how to cook.

    I had to reject this as I felt they were being selfish and self-centered.

    Could you please help me on how to discern whether a particular boy and his family will be right for me? Its really scary… I do not want to marry and then end the whole thing with a divorce. Please help. I am very confused. Thank you.

    FATHER JOE: I am afraid I would be of little help. I personally oppose arranged marriages. I believe that women should explore the many options before them in freedom. Turning your back on your family would be wrong but you have your own life, too. One of our conflicts with militant Islam is how they reduce women to property.

  2. If this comes to pass it will be emphatically clear what is going on in the Catholic Church.

    Sandro Magister is saying in Chiesa that Cardinal Raymond Burke will be margialized soon.

    IF Magister’s publication is not correct he will lose credibility, certanly with me. If h is on the money, we will all know who Francis serves, and Christ would not be among them.

    WE WILL SEE.

    Karl

    FATHER JOE: Every Pope has the right to put his own people in the various positions of administration. I would naturally suspect that Cardinal Burke will be moving on to another role. S. Magister might be popular with gossip around the Vatican but I do not view him as a religious prophet. I put faith in the Church leadership, not in the critics and scandalous editorials that would presume magisterial authority.

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