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[29] Third Sunday of Lent

Posted on March 3, 2018 by Father Joe

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Readings: Exodus 20:1-17 / Psalm 19 / 1 Corinthians 1:22-25 / John 2:13-25

Our first reading from Exodus has the presentation of the Decalogue, and so I would like to present some of my reflections on the Ten Commandments that I usually share with those taking formal religious instructions. I will also speak to the catechetical over the Scriptural listing, as the incarnation of Christ has abrogated the prohibition against graven images. Christ is the human face of God. He is the revelation of our heavenly Father.

The first commandment reminds us that ours is a jealous God; there is no other before him. He is the one and only! He does not want us wasting our lives on false gods or empty superstitions. Even though there may not be many traditional worshipers of idols cast in stone or bronze, or of figures from nature like the sun or animals, this prohibition is still violated. We see this in dangerous occult toys, like tarot cards and Ouija boards. These things are hazardous to our souls because they sidestep God’s dominion over us and his will for us. They might even invite spiritual evil to penetrate our lives. This commandment also condemns sacrilege whereby persons, places, or things sacred to God are defiled. Even interest in the popular horoscopes can sometimes escalate beyond simple curiosity and become habitual false guides. God wants us to follow him alone.

The second commandment urges us to treat God’s name respectfully. This necessarily prohibits blasphemy, making false oaths in God’s name, and cursing.

The third commandment tells us to make the Sabbath day holy. For Christians, this obligation is transferred to Sunday. (It is interesting that most Protestant religions accept at least this one precept or legislation of the Roman Catholic Church. Otherwise, along with our Jewish brethren, they would respect it on Saturday.) We sanctify this day by prayer, worship, avoiding unnecessary work, rest, and joy. Therefore, something like failing to participate at Mass on Sunday is not merely a violation of the laws of the Church, but in a very direct manner, an infringement upon this commandment to give God his due.

The fourth commandment exhorts us to respect our parents by loving and helping them, especially when they are in need. While young and under their immediate authority, children must obey their parents. Reciprocally, parents must give a Catholic education to the children entrusted to them. Their spiritual and material welfare is essentially in their hands. The parents may extend or endow school teachers and others with something of their own authority. This commandment speaks to us in a less direct way about authority in general. All just authority comes from God. We are called to obey spiritual and civil authorities when they make legitimate demands. However, if there is a conflict between the laws of human beings and those of God, God comes first.

The fifth commandment prohibits us from either harming our own bodies or those of others. This commandment expands beyond murder or suicide to the various partial degradations: including such things as mutilation, striking another, harmful drugs, drunkenness, and carelessly taking risks with our lives. Abortion is a direct violation of this commandment. Our right to choose should never be deemed a higher priority than another person’s right to life.

The sixth commandment, taken alone, forbids all external sins against chastity. Once sexual activity is condoned outside marriage, as in fornication, it is logically difficult to confine afterwards, as in adultery. The premise is already adopted. Some fifty percent of the couples who live together prior to marriage eventually get divorced. The seed for failure is already planted. Sin is a mighty poor preparation for the nuptial sacrament. Considered with the ninth commandment, all interior sins against chastity are likewise condemned. The human sexual powers are given for the propagation of children and for the fidelity of a man and woman in marriage. Outside of marriage, it is a great evil to exercise these powers, which are not simply expressions of our flesh, but of our very persons— who we are! Inside marriage, these powers must not be distorted in their purpose or in the motivation of two people in love drawn to union. Lust, even in marriage, is a sin and degradation to what it means to be truly human. It re-categorizes the beloved from a personal subject to an impersonal object. Instead of self-sacrifice and surrender— thinking of the other’s needs and happiness— we selfishly treat the other as a disposable thing with which we can seek our own gratification. If the beloved is no more than an object, then the stage is set for adultery because objects are interchangeable. This is the antithesis of the Gospel. Marriage is called to be a permanent union. Adultery is a gross violation of that permanent union which is to reflect the fidelity between Christ and his bride, the Church. The adulterer plays the role of Satan who would lure us away from our divine groom and from the wedding banquet of heaven.

The seventh commandment rejects stealing and dealing unjustly with another. Even if we accept stolen goods, we have broken this commandment. All sorts of things fall under this heading: idling, charging unfair interest, not paying debts, not giving a just salary, and stealing someone’s good name. Restitution is demanded in cases where we have stolen or damaged the goods of others. This last matter draws this commandment to the eighth.

The eighth commandment would have us be a people of truth and good will. We are not to lie or to slander others. If we stumble into this sin, then we need to repair the damage caused by our falsehoods.

The ninth commandment, as mentioned under the sixth, requires us to be mindful of our thoughts. To occupy ourselves with sexual fantasies regarding others, not only breaks down our will in reference to actions, but degrades the one whom we are imagining. This is destructive to the dignity of the person who is reduced to an impersonal object in obscene films and other pornography.

The tenth commandment, like the ninth, reminds us that God wants our conversion, both in external action and in our internal disposition. To be open to the grace of his presence, we must free ourselves from within, of those persons or things which we might covet before God. In actuality, we might not commit a sin against justice, but we might “want” to do it. Even this needs to be weaned away. We need to reach a point in our spiritual life where we do not WANT to steal from or to hurt another.

God establishes his law with his people. Fidelity to the commandments realizes the covenant with God. Disobedience is more than breaking rules; it severs a saving relationship with the Lord. The full revelation of God and the expansion of his covenant relationship, as the apostle Paul says in the second reading, are in Christ Crucified. The Gospel gives us the shocking scene where Jesus whips the money-changers out of the temple and upsets their tables. He complains that the temple which is a place for worship and sacrifice has been made into a marketplace or even worse, a den of thieves. When asked by what authority he casts them out, he in return challenges them, “Destroy this temple and in three days I will raise it up.” They mistakenly think he is referencing the building around them when he really means his body. Long before, the actual tablets of the law and the ark had been lost. Jesus is the new covenant but he is not made at home in the Jewish temple. Within seventy years the temple will be demolished by the Romans. Two thousand years later it is still gone, all but the retaining or wailing wall. Jesus was crucified but the temple of his body rose from the tomb. As mentioned last week, Jesus is the fulfillment of the law and the prophets. We are all called as believers to be obedient to Jesus and to enter into his temple, the Mystical Body.

Are there certain commandments that we routinely violate?
Do we give God his due in daily prayer, Mass participation and witness?
Do we follow the commandments mechanically or within Christ’s command to love?
While expressed negatively, how might you make the commandments into positive statements?
Do we respect the new temples of the Lord: Christ present in us by grace, in our homes by holiness, in our tabernacles as sacrament, in the Scriptures as the living Word, and in the Church as the Mystical Body of Christ?

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Clarity in a Sea of Confusion

Posted on February 28, 2018 by Father Joe

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Dr. Dolores B. Grier, Rest in Peace

Posted on February 27, 2018 by Father Joe

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Sir Knight Reginald Grier informed us that his sister, Dr. Dolores Bernadette Grier, died in New York City on February 22, 2018, her birthday. She was 91 years old.

The late Cardinal O’Connor of New York appointed Dr. Dolores Bernadette Grier as the first lay woman to be a vice chancellor of the archdiocese. Dolores Grier’s appointment as vice chancellor for community relations in 1985 was national news as she achieved several firsts. Not only was she the first lay woman, but she also was the first black American in the U.S. to be appointed a vice chancellor. She also became the first lay woman named to any chancery post in the archdiocese.

When Grier was a teenager she converted to Roman Catholicism. She graduated with a master’s degree in social work from Fordham University. In 1980 she heard a “persuasive, dynamic speech in defense of all human life from conception” by the Rev. Jesse Jackson and credits this speech with bringing her into the pro-life movement. She lamented in her book, DEATH BY ABORTION, the course Jackson took in his career by saying, “Regrettably, Rev. Jackson joined the Democratic political party and adopted its pro-abortion/pro-choice platform. Too many legislators, Republican and Democratic, have chosen to walk on the ‘comfort zone’ bridge of pro-choice, thus turning their backs on the unborn human beings, perhaps because they are not yet voters or members of a political action group.”

In 1993 the New York City branch of the NAACP selected her to be the recipient of the Women’s History Month award, she refused it and membership because of the organization’s pro-choice stance on abortion. “As president of the Association of Black Catholics,” she wrote, “I believe abortion to be a racist weapon of genocide against black people. It has been thrust upon black women as a solution to their economic crises, confusion and concern.”

She had a television program on BLACK CATHOLICS and was a long-time EWTN spokesperson and close friend of the late Mother Angelica. She was a nationally known African American pro-life activist and non-fiction author. She also orchestrated the PROUD TO BE ROMAN CATHOLIC effort in New York. Dr. Grier sat on the Board of Advisors of the Catholic League and was founder of Black Catholics Against Abortion. She wrote, “Yesterday they snatched babies from our arms and sold them into slavery, today they snatch them from our womb and throw them into the garbage.”

I met her on several occasions and she was a wonderful lady and true disciple of Christ. Rest in peace.

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[26] Second Sunday of Lent

Posted on February 25, 2018 by Father Joe

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Readings: Gen. 22:1-2, 9a, 10-13, 15-18 / Ps. 116 / Romans 8:31b-34 / Mk. 9:2-10

An important traditional demarcation of the ancient Jews from their pagan neighbors was the repugnance they felt toward human sacrifice. Rather, they offered the grains of the field or animals like goats, sheep, bulls and birds. However, more recent archeological evidence shows that the early Jews did at one time offer the oblation of human beings. The remnant texts that point to such behavior are the testing of Abraham and the story of Jephthah’s daughter. The story of Jephthah’s daughter can be found in Judges 11:29-40. Like our passage today, it is deeply disturbing. The Hebrew general pledges that the first who steps out the door of his home, he will sacrifice. He immediately laments his pledge because out steps his young daughter. She requests a short time to mourn her virginity and then we are told he did as he promised. Unlike the story of Abraham and Isaac, it appears that God does not stay his hand. The young girl had courage and her father kept his promise to God; but as Christians, we are aware that some promises should not be made. The child mourns that she will never know the joys of being a wife and mother. It is a poignant and terrible story.

Just as the story of Abraham and Isaac prefigures God’s surrender of his Son; the story of Jephthah’s daughter is connected to the Virgin Mary. Mary gives herself to perpetual virginity and undergoes a vicarious martyrdom in witnessing the passion and death of her Son. Jephthah was a great Jewish general. He was successful against tremendous odds. He was victorious not because of his oath, but in spite of it. As St. John Chrysostom would tell us, his repugnant act would move the Jews to renounce all such blood-oaths from that time forward. Regarded as a testing of Abraham’s faith, a messenger from heaven intervenes and God directly prohibits the sacrifice of Isaac. This would plainly show that God does not delight in such sacrifices.

Abraham certainly did not comprehend the command to sacrifice Isaac. It seemed to violate providence, itself. The patriarch was elderly and his son was the child of promise from which he was supposed to generate many descendants. He did not understand but he remained faithful. It is that element and not the shocking act that we should fully reflect upon. God stays the hand of Abraham but he would not spare his own Son, the child promised from the dawn of creation. Our heavenly Father did not directly will that his Son should be tortured and murdered; but he did desire faithfulness. Jesus is faithful to his mission unto the Cross. Abraham substitutes the oblation of a ram. When God spared us (signified by Isaac), Jesus substitutes himself for us as the divine Lamb of God. The sacrifice is no longer a ram caught in the briars but a Savior crowned with thorns.

The sacrifice of human beings by the pagans would be regarded by the early Christian community as a feeding the bloodlust of demons. We might think that we are morally better and enlightened, but over a million unborn children are aborted in the United States annually. Many ministers regard this as a return of the demonic sacrifices of old. Are we feeding demons the blood of our children?

The responsorial speaks to our conviction as believers during the season of Lent: “O LORD, I am your servant; I am your servant, the son of your handmaid; you have loosed my bonds. To you will I offer sacrifice of thanksgiving, and I will call upon the name of the LORD.” Catholics readily make the connection between Christ as the suffering servant and Mary who declares herself as “the handmaid of the Lord.” Jesus offers his life that we might be released from the bonds of Satan. Our Lord will pay the price of his life to set us free. Mother and Son will meet on Calvary. The sacrifice of Jesus will do what all prior oblations failed to do— make true and lasting atonement for sin.

The second reading reiterates today’s theme: “If God is for us, who can be against us? He who did not spare his own Son but handed him over for us all, how will he not also give us everything else along with him?” Paul is speaking about the gift of hope that comes with faith. The victory over sin and death has already been won.

The Gospel reading gives us the scene of the Transfiguration. Our Lord is dressed in dazzling white and beside him stands Elijah and Moses. This signifies that Jesus is the fulfillment of the LAW and the PROPHETS. The transformation in Jesus might be interpreted as a sign of things to come, notably the resurrection. Lest it should be misunderstood, Jesus tells his three apostles not to speak about what they have seen until “the Son of Man had risen from the dead.” We are told that they questioned what was meant by “rising from the dead.” The apostles really could not get their heads around our Lord’s prophesies about his passion and death.

There is an important but sometimes overlooked element to the reading that we today should take to heart. The heavenly Father’s voice beckons from the cloud, “This is my beloved Son. Listen to him.” Jesus is the ultimate term for salvation. It is his sacrifice that is saving. Given that he buys us back with his own life, we belong to him. If that be the case, then it must be realized with faith and an abiding obedience.

What sacrifices have you made in your life to realize your discipleship?
Do you appreciate that every Mass is a re-presentation of the oblation of Calvary?
Have you placed limits on your faith and what you would do in response to God’s calling?
How have you died for Christ and others, brushing aside selfishness?
Do you listen and obey God’s Son or have you substituted other authorities?
Do you put a premium upon human life, both in and out of the womb?

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We are Men and Women, Not Angels

Posted on February 22, 2018 by Father Joe

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Biology uses the word “species” to refer to us as “homo sapiens.” Thomistic philosophers sometimes use it in a different way, speaking of our species as human, albeit as composites. Angels and human souls are without matter, but every material composite has two parts, prime matter and substantial form. The substantial unity of a composite being demands that there can be but a single substantial form. The substantial form in human beings, men and women, is the soul. This soul is exclusive of any other soul. However, we are kindred to one another as a species or class. Material composites know individuation because of their extension or dimensions. By contrast, angels have no matter and are not composites; thus, every angel as a spiritual entity is a distinct species unto itself.

There is no marriage between angels. There is no reproduction. There is no complementarity of gender. All we can say is that they may have traits that we usually associate with one gender over another. But even that may be an oversimplification. What do we know of what angels do or angelic character? When we try to figure them out we illustrate them as naked human bodies with wings attached.

Why do I make such obscure academic observations? It is because many seem to be confusing the human with the angelic. What makes us human men and women is fixed; nevertheless, many are arguing that gender is simply a matter of choice. While it would not include the quality of gender, angels by their intellect and will determine their unique species at the moment of their immediate creation outside of space and time. We come to exist in time and within material creation. We classify pure spirits as angels and even rank them but no one angel is like any other. Some transgender people today are treating their humanity in a similar way, refusing to be labeled as either male or female. But do they have this authority, particularly since gender seems to be fixed? Do they have freedom or choice to embrace legal fictions?

Gender identification is today often called into question and debated. Growing numbers seem to suffer from a sexual disorientation. Many feel that they have a gender sense that is in conflict with their bodily composition. Some have sought to have a legal designation to reassign their gender. Others have sought through surgery or chemical intervention to change their gender. The Church would traditionally view such efforts as absurd. The divine determination is taken for granted. You are what you are… every body part and every cell… your basic DNA… all of it speaks to your identity as a man or woman. This is the lens through which we know ourselves and how we look upon the world. We relate as men and women in all our associations and friendships, even in our chaste relationships.

Gender is a differentiation we share with others. Men and women are human but they come in two sexes. These qualities are combined with many others, some shared and others unique to our identity. Here I speak not so much about the accidentals that distinguish us but rather those qualities or elements that defy measurement or calibration. We are finite creatures but the spark of the infinite both gives us life and keeps us in existence.

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The Mystery of Gender Permeates Body & Soul

Posted on February 21, 2018 by Father Joe

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An accepted tenet of my classical training is that substantial forms inform all prime matter. It is within this sphere that we usually discuss creation. Christians believe in an ordered universe. God is the source for an intelligent design. We are not the result of a cosmic accident. The substantial form is where we locate the properties and unity of an object. The substantial form for the human person is the immortal soul. If this soul organizes our constitution and gives us our identity then the soul must also include the element of gender. Sexuality is not isolated to the body. There is also a spiritual component. There is no generic human soul and then male or female accidental renderings of humanity. Unlike the substantial forms of things, each human soul while having commonality with others is unique. Since the human soul has no parts it is indestructible and survives the death of the body. We will be reconstituted in accord with our souls.

Separatist or dualist theologians argue against traditional Christian sexual morality because they treat the person as an operator in a robotic body. The soul is distinct and not necessarily connected to the body. They do not regard the body as the real you. Materialists might have some regard for natural law, but often contend that morality is whatever men want it to be. They argue that there is no soul that actuates or vivifies you. They further insist that there is no spiritual operator running a robotic body— there is only the body. Since they judge everyone as merely thinking and loving meat, there are no eternal consequences for our actions to worry us. They would say do as you want because tomorrow you will be nothing but worm-food.

My own view is one of an intense integralism. While we are spiritual-corporeal composites, I would place a greater weight upon the composite itself over the body and even the soul. Bodies without souls are corpses. Souls without bodies are ghosts. Neither is a condition to which I look forward. Our hope in Christ is for the resurrection of the dead, body and soul. Not angelic beings, it is essential to our personhood and identity that there be a restoration. The soul is a higher principle in that it has no parts that can break down. However, our constitution is set as a creature that bridges the material and spiritual worlds. We are not mere animals. Alternately, we seem to have little or nothing in the way of angelic powers. Just as the soul informs the body; the body shares information with the soul. There are apparent parallel operations between the intellect of the soul and the elements of mind and intelligence found in the organic (the brain). There is an interposition between the spiritual and material. Soul and body function as a profound unity. I suppose this is why spouses can speak of each other as soul-mates. There would be no marriage if men and women were not sexual beings. However, this meaning cannot be reduced to the same denominator that defines cats, dogs, horses and other animals. There is a transcendent factor that permeates the central axis of persons. Everything the soul or body wants or does reverberates in the other. Gender or sexuality permeates the whole.

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Sexuality is Who You Are Not What You Do

Posted on February 20, 2018 by Father Joe

We are sexual beings. Even the celibate knows himself as either male or female. The word sex is often wrongly reduced to activity. It is actually expressive of our identity or who we are. It is for this reason that the U.S. Bishops went forward with the “Marriage Matters” campaign against so-called same sex marriage. Marriage is an exclusive bond between a man and a woman.

Reductionists perceive sexuality as an action and one that can be measured or judged. It sacrifices the element of mystery as a quality of a person’s inner being. It is also narrowed to consequences. Pregnancy and birth are inhibited as one would a disease. The prospect of a stable or singular relationship is often spurned in favor of momentary pleasure or a thill that might employ any number of sexual partners or none at all. People “have” sex instead of “being” their sex.

I recall a paperback fantasy story (the title escapes me) in which those cast in hell became more bestial. Everything and everyone became more eroticized in hell. Women became more endowed in breasts and curves. The men discovered that their genitals grew and they lost almost all self-control. One man tried to sneak into heaven but raced back to hell when he observed the gradual disappearance of his male sex organs. Despite these peculiar elements, the author tried to avoid the more grievous vulgarities in his composition so as to promote certain moral truths. While interesting fiction, I would contend that he got the situation basically wrong. We become more and not less of what we are with judgment in the afterlife; men and women in heaven will never stop being male or female. Joseph is still the foster “father” of Jesus and Mary will always be the blessed “mother” and the New Eve. There will be no concupiscence in heaven. There will be no marrying or giving in marriage— except for the marriage banquet of the Lamb. There will be perfect self-control. There will be unity in Christ. We will relate to one another as brothers and sisters, men and women— not as sexless drones.

While angels may be without gender, such is not the state of human beings. Male and female is how we are made and it is how we will be remade. God’s grace will perfect us but we will still be who and what we are. The divine economy will give us a share in immortality but God will not unmake our identity.

Frequently in these arguments, critics will point to St. Paul’s statement in Galatians 3:28 that in Christ “there is neither male nor female.” This does not mean that men and women are interchangeable or utterly the same. What it does say is that men and women alike are called by Christ to be disciples. We all have the capacity for faith and to benefit from the saving graces of baptism. I have engaged in past debates where critics used this passage to argue for women’s ordination. However, it does not apply to anything more than our universal priesthood in baptism. The tradition coming down from Christ and the apostles is that the ordained priesthood is reserved to men. Men are seen as living icons for Christ. They signify the divine bridegroom at the altar with the Church as his bride. A woman priest would suffer from the same critique as would same-sex marriages: the marriage analogy would be transformed into a lesbian caricature that could only feign priesthood. The true priesthood, the Mass and sacramental absolution would be lost. Gender is not an accidental element but a substantial quality of human identity.

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An Over-sexed World Does Not Understand Sex

Posted on February 19, 2018 by Father Joe

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Analogies scratch at the surface of truth and reality. Nevertheless, they do allow a certain degree of illumination. We speak of heaven as an eternal banquet. We view the relationship of Christ to his Church as akin to the marital bond of a husband to his wife. Just as there can be no gluttony in heaven, neither can there be lust. The imperfections in human desires and activities can have no part to play in their eternal dimension. While we are broken, the moral life demands that we strive toward something of the perfection that awaits us. Food means physical life. Marriage means the life of children. Food gives satisfaction. Marriage brings the joy of marital union. God will sustain us and he will feed us with his very self. Ultimately, the measure of our unity is within the peace of Christ.

It may be that marriage finds itself in trouble within the modern world because people do not know what marriage and sex is really about. Failure to appreciate the truth damages relationships and makes the marriage analogy incomprehensible. There is confusion because many refuse to admit that they might be wrong. Just as certain virgins are anxious about telling others about their inexperience; those with active sex-lives may be reticent to admit that they are regularly engaged in something that they really do not understand. Persons are often reduced to a means to a selfish end. Sex is treated as recreation or as something to release tension. While it should be expressive of a bond, it should not be regarded as bondage. The abuse of sexual union leads to a whole assortment of ills. That which should draw people together and make possible personal integrity can inadvertently fragment personalities and cause rifts of infidelity and frustration. If one has a negative experience of sexual behavior, particularly when it is abusive, then how can he or she imagine that it is good, joyous and holy? There may be no sexual intercourse in heaven; however, this does not mean that such loving coupling cannot point to a profound intimacy between the divine and the communion of the saints.

Our culture is erotically saturated. Pornography has gone largely mainstream. Sex pollutes the media entertainments and advertising. Many people claim that they have to have it, giving impetus to a drug market where all sorts of dysfunction cures are prescribed. Nevertheless, while there is a focus on fantasy and the mechanics of human sexuality; there is a paucity of reflection upon ultimate meaning and the theology of the body. If human sexuality is reduced to an accidental then it might no longer matter… serial marriages, multiple partners, same-sex unions, fornication and even adultery are shifted to the periphery of social life with minimal moral importance. However, the traditional Western philosophical and religious critic would lament that this is all a lie. Human sexuality is not accidental and gender is not interchangeable. There must be a genuine complementarity, sufficient gravity in importance and a lasting permanence. Our gender identity is a core substantive element. The union of men and women is not between two half’s but rather two whole’s. It builds upon who they are, making them (together) something new.

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The Dark Secret

Posted on February 18, 2018 by Father Joe

What is the presumed dark truth that remains largely unspoken by the churchmen desiring a “paradigm shift” in reference to those in irregular unions being invited to receive the sacraments, i.e. the Eucharist and the penitential absolution?

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I suspect that despite objections to the contrary, they really do not believe that there is any lasting bond (sacramental, natural or spiritual) associated with the marriage of men and women. There was a priest I knew, died some years ago, who ridiculed the very notion that there was a lasting spiritual change in the spouses akin to the sacramental character imprinted upon the soul of men ordained to the priesthood. While I agreed that sacerdotal ordination was “forever” and that marriage was “until death do they part,” he spurned the notion of any real but invisible tie between spouses other than a psychological one. His view seemed to me as overly Anglican, as does the Orthodox compromise of penitential marriage. My thinking upon the question remains unchanged.

Marriage is a perpetual bond. Our Lord insists that it remains in effect as indissoluble as long as the spouses are alive. Further, while marriage ends at the threshold of this world and the next, we should all appreciate in Christ that love is stronger than death. There is something about the connection that changes spouses in an irrevocable way. They might marry again after a spouse dies; but a mysterious quality remains from the first union. Something changed with the bond that does not revert back to what it was before. Given that marriage is reflective of Christ’s relationship with his bride, the Church, this struck me as a necessary truth. Our Lord will never abandon or divorce his Church. Spouses give something to the beloved that is singular and that creates a union that is unique and unrepeatable. A second marriage may have its own value and particular traits; however, while not maligning a second chance at love, the first bond (if real, and in certain cases even when suspect) has a residual or lasting impact or impression. I am talking about more than mental memories; it is as if the body itself has its own remembrance. Further, what we do in the flesh has a powerful interplay with the human soul and identity.

Matthew 19:3-9:

Some Pharisees approached him, and tested him, saying, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any cause whatever?” He said in reply, “Have you not read that from the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female’ and said, ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’? So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore, what God has joined together, no human being must separate.” They said to him, “Then why did Moses command that the man give the woman a bill of divorce and dismiss [her]?” He said to them, “Because of the hardness of your hearts Moses allowed you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so. I say to you, whoever divorces his wife (unless the marriage is unlawful) and marries another commits adultery.”

C. S. Lewis has this to say in Letter 18 of The Screwtape Letters:

The Enemy described a married couple as “one flesh.” He did not say “a happily married couple” or “a couple who married because they were in love,” but you can make the humans ignore that. You can also make them forget that the man they call Paul did not confine it to married couples. Mere copulation, for him, makes “one flesh.” You can thus get the humans to accept as rhetorical eulogies of “being in love” what were in fact plain descriptions of the real significance of sexual intercourse. The truth is that wherever a man lies with a woman, there, whether they like it or not, a transcendental relation is set up between them which must be eternally enjoyed or eternally endured. From the true statement that this transcendental relation was intended to produce, and, if obediently entered into, too often will produce, affection and the family, humans can be made to infer the false belief that the blend of affection, fear, and desire which they call “being in love” is the only thing that makes marriage either happy or holy. The error is easy to produce because “being in love” does very often, in Western Europe, precede marriages which are made in obedience to the Enemy’s designs, that is, with the intention of fidelity, fertility and good will; just as religious emotion very often, but not always, attends conversion. In other words, the humans are to be encouraged to regard as the basis for marriage a highly-colored and distorted version of something the Enemy really promises as its result.

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[23] First Sunday of Lent

Posted on February 17, 2018 by Father Joe

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Readings: Genesis 9:8-15 / Psalm 25 / 1 Peter 3:18-22 / Mark 1:12-15

Noah plays the part of a new Adam. Just as in the creation story, Adam is given charge over creation and names every living thing; Noah preserves the animals from destruction and he and his family will make a new beginning. The spirit of God hovers over the waters of creation and he breathes life into all living beings. Whereas life comes from the waters, so too does death. The covenant that God established with Noah includes the promise that God will never again wipe out the world through a flood. This pattern is revisited with Christ and the new covenant: we die with Christ in the waters of baptism so that we might live or rise with him. The rainbow is left as a sign of God’s covenant with Noah. The sign of the cross will be the mark or lasting sacramental of Christ’s saving covenant. Baptism makes us adopted sons and daughters of the Father, brothers and sisters to Christ, heirs of the kingdom and members of the Church. The Church is often reckoned as or compared to the Ark of Noah. Salvation is found in Christ and in his Church. As pilgrims who must sail through the dangerous storms of this world, our Lord guides and protects us as our captain in his boat or ship. Our rations are signified by the Eucharist, food taken from the Promised Shore. The story of Noah, like the story of salvation in Christ is both about judgment and mercy. Even if many are lost, some will be saved. Those who listen to the Lord will be spared. Those who turn away will face his terrible justice.

The psalm asserts, “Your ways, O Lord, are truth and love to those who keep your covenant.” Those who claim God will in turn be claimed by him. It is as simple as that. Covenants are contracts but also much more. Jewish covenants were made in blood. An animal would be slain and blood sprinkled. It was understood that if one broke a covenant, a promise would become a curse. Literally placing one’s life and that of the family on the line, one implored that if this covenant were broken then “let happen to me” what was suffered by this sacrificed lamb or goat or bull. Jesus would be the Lamb of God who “lays down his life” for sinners.

Despite our infidelity, Jesus is faithful. He takes upon himself the sins of the world. He dies that we might live. The psalm asserts that “truth” comes with the covenant. God reveals himself and establishes a relationship with us. Jesus is the revelation of the Father, showing us the face of God. The psalm also states that the covenant expresses love. It is love that calls us into existence. It is for love that God saves a remnant in the days of Noah. It is love that is nailed to a tree and that proves stronger than the grave.

The second reading from Peter’s epistle speaks of Christ’s singular oblation for sinners. Jesus heals the breech between heaven and earth with is death, rises from the dead and then he preaches “to the spirits in prison.” These are the righteous dead in the limbo of the fathers. This number includes Adam, Noah, Abraham, indeed all the ancient patriarchs and prophets. They have waited from the beginning of the world for the promised Messiah— the one who would be reckoned as the Way and the Truth and the Life. Peter says that the story of Noah prefigures “baptism, which saves you now.”

As a contrast to the rain and waters in the story of Noah, our Lord experiences the heat and dust of the desert for forty days. Gone is the life-filled garden of the first Adam. Death has entered the world. Our Lord is tempted by the devil. Fortunately, this time we have an Adam who will not fall. Jesus begins the work for which he comes into the world. He comes to Galilee preaching the Good News: “This is the time of fulfillment. The kingdom of God is at hand. Repent, and believe in the gospel.” All of salvation history converges upon Christ and his three years of ministry: teaching, healing, and forgiving. God will keep his promise to send a Savior. He comes not to rescue the righteous or the good, but sinners or the bad. Despite our infidelity, age after age, God is forever faithful.

We came into existence wounded in the womb. Our ancestors through sin contracted suffering and death. All inherited these painful mysteries and needed healing. We were the purloined property of a fallen angel. While our Lord ransomed us back from the devil, Satan still takes delight in tormenting our wound, introducing a spiritual infection and distracting us from the divine physician. Indeed, some have become so duped that they forget God and no longer believe that Satan exists. History is only transformed if we turn to our saving God; otherwise, we find ourselves contaminated by an essential malignancy. It is only with the Lord that we can find spiritual healing and life. While frustrated in his temptation of Christ, the same demon makes his appeal to us. While he has lost an entitlement to the world and to the race of men, he can still exploit his eternal spite. Jesus may have won the war, but the devil can yet abscond with his particular casualties. Christ might claim you but you are not safe until you claim him. Satan would have us mingle with the indifferent crowd, only believing in the strength of what flesh might attain apart from Christ. He tells us to gorge ourselves with earthly riches and proximate pleasures. “Do not worry about what is right or wrong, no matter whether it be in reference to stolen goods, oppressed immigrants or aborted children. The only choices that matter are the ones that satisfy your needs.” The demon tempts and mocks us all while hiding at the periphery of our life and awareness. Like the roaches that scurry when the lights are turned on, we need to allow Jesus who is the Light of the World to dispel all that hides in the darkness. Repentance makes room for believing and loving as we should.

As people of the covenant, do we keep our promises to God and others?
Do we sufficiently ponder the price that was paid for our sins?
Do we go to confession and is our contrition perfect or imperfect?
Have we read the Gospels or any book about the life of Christ?
Do we take seriously the discipline about fasting and abstinence?

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