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Priestly Celibacy: What is a Priest? What is He Not?

The priest is many things. He is physician, judge, teacher, servant and father. His celibacy amplifies all these models of the priesthood and more. His single-hearted love acts as a catalyst, focusing and intensifying his efforts as a priest of God. He is Jesus feeding the multitude, healing the sick and chasing the money-changers out of the temple at the end of a whip. His compassion never compromises upon the truth. He belongs wholly to Christ and to his Church. He is one with the Good Shepherd, ready and willing to lay down his life to protect his lambs against the robber and the wolf. He is the champion of the poor, the oppressed, the marginalized— indeed, on behalf of all who are weak, vulnerable and voiceless.

The celibate priest is not caught up with the obligations of family life. Rather, in addition to his ministry, he pursues long hours of study and prayer. It is expected that he exerts an intense mental life, seeking always to understand so that he might be a vessel for truth and meaning. People want answers. They are yearning for meaning. Many have come to embrace chaos, thinking that there is no God and that creation is a cosmic accident. Priests let them know that God is real and that he cares. Repeatedly he reminds a dubious world of three important themes: freedom, love and evil. Creation, salvation history, and our own struggles can be understood in the context of these three factors. God freely created us out of love. Man freely rebelled, rejecting God’s love and falling into bondage to evil. God promised redemption and lovingly called us back to fidelity. Love was born in human flesh with Jesus Christ. God did not have to save us but he freely entered the human family. Our Lord freely embraced the Cross and died for us. He had every reason to hate us. We betrayed him. We murdered him with our sins. He loved us so much that he forgave us and offered us a share in his life. Now we are called to freely love him in return, taking up our crosses and following him. We were evil and still in our sins. But he grants us mercy and healing. Our priests perpetuate the love of Christ, a love that faces down evil, brings forgiveness, and renders a share in eternal life. Over and over again, we see these three themes played out.

Priestly Celibacy: The Devil Hates Priests

The devil and his minions hate priests. Satan mocks him. “You’re not a real man— where’s your woman? You have nothing that gives other men solace. There is no woman who loves you. You have no children to carry forward your name and legacy. The pews are empty. Your sacrifices were all for nothing. You are abandoned. You are a bad priest. You have wasted your life. Sermon after sermon you give, but nobody cares. Just get Mass over quickly so we can watch the football game. Your morality is a joke. No one listens to you. You hate homosexuals and yet you’re probably a closet one yourself. No one trusts you with their kids. You might be one of THOSE priests. Even your bishop does not trust you; all contracts must be reviewed and every decision must pass muster with the legal department. Face it, you are nothing. You are told what to do like a puppet on a string; where is your manhood? You are everyone’s lackey. Make waves and we will report you to the bishop. You’re told you can’t talk about certain issues. Don’t make trouble! Don’t you dare speak against contraception or gays or abortion! If I come up the aisle with a pitchfork in hand and wearing the skulls of dead babies around my neck, don’t you dare refuse me communion. Ah, here is the blasphemy. You cannot even protect that which you hold most dear, the so-called Blessed Sacrament. You are pathetic, weak and passive. You are all dress up and talk. And you call yourself a priest of God?” As long as there is hope, the priest will prevail. But if he despairs, then all is lost.

Priestly Celibacy: The Priest as MAN of God

Although he is celibate, the priest engages men and women in very masculine ways. Anything of the effeminate in his manner compromises his posture and undermines the vitality of his vocation. Because he signifies Christ, the new Adam and most perfect man; the priest must be wholly a man. The pattern of the male apostles and the exclusion of women from holy orders is a further guarantee of this basic quality in the Catholic priesthood. Jesus demonstrates to our over-sexed society that a priest can be very much a man and still remain chaste and celibate. The priest relates to men and women as father and brother. He sees his charges as spiritual children. He acknowledges that we are all adopted sons and daughters of our heavenly Father, brothers and sisters to each other, and kin to Christ. A father will do all he can to protect his family. A big brother will fight for his siblings, especially for the honor of his kid sister. Similarly, the role of father and brother is realized in the many duties of his ministry.

Real men keep their promises. This means that they are prepared to accept responsibility and take charge. They do not run away from obligation and duty. Accepting either praise or blame for their actions, they must be courageous. Cowards have no place in the priesthood. All the virtues, albeit in a masculine manner, should be actualized in priestly life and ministry. The priest is also a unique spiritual soldier. His celibacy resonates with this because an ordinary soldier would not drag his wife and children into battle with him; the priest will contest against the devil until his dying breath. Everyone is caught up in this conflict but it is the priest alone who can call God down from heaven in the Eucharist and make saints out of the damned through his Absolution. Every priest is an exorcist against the presence of the beast that seeks to devour souls. His celibacy along with prayer is his armament against the snares of the enemy. It is because of all this that people should pray for their priests, supporting them in the perilous work they do.

Priestly Celibacy: Women & Encountering Mystery

The priest also encounters women as pastoral subjects. They come to him for the sacraments, devotions, and counsel. It is within these meetings that the priest must have a sincere respect for mystery. I mean here not only the mystery of God and his saving intervention; but also, the mystery that is woman. Female friendships can give him insight into the female heart and mind; however, there are depths that are forever hidden to him which touch the divine. How could it be otherwise, given that women by design can so intimately cooperate with God in the work of creation? Men and women are not the same, despite efforts in our society to treat them interchangeably. Men and women who get married readily realize this. It represents a type of paradox. The more these couples live together, the more they appreciate the quality of mystery that cannot be penetrated. The celibate priest should both respect this mystery and see in it something of his yearning to know God. Priests study and pray as facets of their vocation, and yet, the deeper they understand God and his providence, the more they discover a mystery eluding their grasp. It has been said that God gave mankind two genders so that they might discover something of the divine otherness in each other.

Popes Opposed Slavery against Dissenters

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Medallion from 1787 Wedgwood Anti-slavery Campaign

We often think that dissent from the Holy See and the teaching Church is a new phenomenon. However, just as the land of “life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness” silences any reference to God in her schools and promotes the mass murder of the unborn in the womb, so too did our land, and even her Catholic citizens, dissent from papal admonitions against slavery. Catholic churchmen held large parcels of land and like their Protestant fellows, maintained the institution of slavery. The Maryland colony first founded as a haven for Catholics would later facilitate in Baltimore Harbor a central commercial trade in slaves. People were bartered as nothing more than animals or property. Personhood was denied. Human rights were trampled upon. The rights of landowners and the “choice” of European stock immigrants were made preferential over the needs and wants of people kidnapped from the African shores.

Slavery as practiced by the Jews or later by Christians in the ancient world did not compare to it. Slaves were taken from conquered peoples and indentured servants would be used well into the colonial period of America. After a period of service, and even restitution, such slaves were freed. However, we are the ones (European colonialism) who invented perpetual racial slavery– a foul business that could be passed on from generation to generation. Families could be separated. Torture and death could be implemented without any care or worry about censure. Great Britain would renounce slavery many years prior to the Civil War (ended 1865) when the issue would be forced in the United States. Here is the irony. If the Revolutionary War had gone the other way, blacks would have known freedom many generations earlier.

  • 1778 – Slavery outlawed in Scotland.
  • 1807 – British slave trade outlawed.
  • 1833 – All British slaves freed.

Reserving ourselves to the Catholic community, it must be admitted that Catholics often catechized and had their slaves baptized. However, the churches would be segregated and later their schools. It is interesting that Cardinal O’Boyle in Washington, DC would order the desegregation of parochial schools in the 1950′s prior to similar efforts by the federal government. But, past injustice must not be excused because of later enlightenment.

Today many of our people and liberal Catholic theologians and bishops argue for abortion, artificial contraception and active homosexuality. They are the spiritual heirs to the Catholic dissenters on the matter of slavery.

Pope Eugene IV ordered that black slaves be freed in the Canary Islands back in 1435. Columbus was not even born yet! He demanded that “these peoples are to be totally and perpetually free” (Sicut Dudum). Slaveholders who refused the order were excommunicated.

Indians from the New World would be brought to the Pope with the absurd question as to whether or not they were human beings. It was hoped that if the Holy Father deemed them subhuman or animals, that this would legitimate the slave trade and the confiscation of their lands.

Pope Paul III (1537) condemned slavery in the New World, saying, “The Indians and all other peoples … who shall hereafter come to the attention of Christians … are not to be deprived of their liberty and their possessions” (Sublimis Deus).  While in regard to the mistreatment of Native Americans, this condemnation of slavery was absolute.  Slavers were rebuked as minions of the devil and rationalizations for slavery denounced as without any value.  Pastorale Officium  imposed automatic excommunication for any who tried to enslave the Indians or take their possessions.

The Holy Office of the Inquisition responded to a question on March 20, 1686 about the practice of enslaving innocent blacks.  The Church rejected such actions and argued that they had to be freed and restitution made for the injustice against them.

The later popes spoke with one voice. Pope Gregory XVI (1839) stipulated that no one should “dare to bother unjustly, despoil of their possessions, or enslave Indians, Blacks, or other such peoples” (In Supremo). He decried the traders for their “sordid gain” and the slave trade as an “inhuman traffic.”  Even the defending of such slave trade was ordered forbidden.

Nevertheless, the Catholic bishops met in Baltimore in 1840 and contended that the Pope was only condemning the slave trade, not domestic slavery in the U.S.  Is there a similarity between the position of the bishops (for which Bishop John England was a major spokesman) in 1840 and the position of certain Churchmen today in excusing U.S. military intervention around the world or pampering pro-abortion Catholic politicians here at home?

Toward the end of the nineteen century, Pope Leo XIII, the great pope who wrote about the dignity and rights of workers, also deplored the remnants of slavery in Africa and parts of South America.

Supreme Court Justice Clarence Thomas (a Catholic and former seminarian) argues from natural law that the situation of slavery in America and abortion today are analogous– both strip human beings of personhood, liberty and life.

Where is the prophetic voice? What will future generations, if a culture of life should supplant one of death, think of this generation and her leaders– civil and religious?

This topic is revisited in many ways.  It would also regard how we treat the immigrants.  Some would invite them to work here but deprive them of the benefits given our citizens.  The rise of labor unions and Catholic social teaching responded to the needs and rights of American laborers.  Further, what about the sweat shops where workers are exploited so that we might buy cheaper goods?  Many of the identical concerns attached to slavery are encountered here.

I would direct readers to Fr. Joel Panzer’s excellent book, The Popes and Slavery. Those who would fault the Church on this question would have to further impugn the apostles and Christ.  However, Christianity, while it did not eradicate this social institution, did create a new mindset in its regard.  One had to share the faith with servants and treat them in a manner that would recognize them as brothers and sisters in the Lord.  There are numerous documents from Popes and churchmen, and even in the journal of the much maligned Christopher Columbus, that spoke of a temporary bondage so that civilization and faith might be shared with the pagans. This is not to make excuses for what we know today as repugnant; but the Church and faith is given to us in human history and culture, not purely as something from outside.  Those well-versed in historiography would appreciate what I am trying to say.  The Bible and the Church were not privy to an immediate, complete and definitive Christian Anthropology.  The truth required time and reflection.

It is untrue that the Church was silent on the evils of certain forms of slavery until after the Civil War.  As I said before, American “chattel” or “traditional” slavery would not pass the moral litmus test of the Church.  However, there were other forms of servitude.  Our country also saw the employment of indentured servants.  After the debt was paid or the contract satisfied, the servant was given his freedom.  Such would be a form of “slavery,” would find a parallel with prison chain gangs and prisoners of war.

Slavery under pagan Roman law was brutal and stripped the person of basic rights.  While Christianity did not eradicate the institution, believers were rightfully conflicted and challenged as to how the institution might be maintained.  The treatment of individual slaves necessarily changed and the seed which was the spirit of the Gospel would work toward its eventual abolition. All men were reckoned children of God and brothers and sisters to one another, regardless of social standing or class.  Given St. Paul’s command that slaves should obey their masters, it was argued by many authorities that certain forms of slavery or servitude were in accordance with natural law.  Distinctions were made about voluntary and involuntary servitude.  Immoral acts could not be required of anyone, even a slave.  Temporary versus perpetual slavery was debated and delineated.  Chattel slavery was condemned for treating the human being as an animal and not respecting personhood.  The master was also morally obligated.  He had to clothe, shelter, and feed the slave.  He had to give him a Christian upbringing.  The servant could not be tortured, killed or given inhuman working conditions.  The master could not separate families. I am not saying that everyone followed the rules; but there were rules. Indeed, given that the rules for Christians were so often broken, later moralists rejected the whole notion of slavery as justifiable, either with natural law or with the spirit of the Gospel.  Slavery had to be abolished if people were to have genuine freedom and a sense of self-respect.

Priestly Celibacy: Relating to Women

How should the celibate priest relate to women? This question is not simple given that there is an active national debate about how men behave (or misbehave) around women. Some guys treat every woman as chiefly a sexual object. We see this in the proliferation of pornography which focuses upon the desires of men. The sin of fornication is increasingly regarded as a necessary rite of passage and the way to measure the success of the dating experience. Cohabitation now statistically outnumbers married couples. Adultery is a chief cause for separation and divorce. Women complain about harassment, gender stereotypes and abusive and/or forced seduction. It is into this environment that celibate priests are called to respect women, who usually make up the majority of their congregations; however, there can be no romantic associations.

As an effort to safeguard or to insure celibacy, a number of priests in the past were trained to keep women at a distance. This did not mean that they hated women; however, they may have looked upon females with suspicion and tagged them as dangerous. It has been known that some priests have narrowed their friendships to other priests or a few men while treating their flocks (men and women alike) as souls to save but nothing more. We might say that they have attempted to strip gender from the perception of their congregations; but in truth, they have endeavored to neuter themselves. I have never known it to work well.

Priests must acknowledge they are men, not robots. Men relate to women differently than they do to other men. This does not have to be a bad element. Women can bring out a sensitive and courteous side in men. Look at how gentlemen treat their mothers and daughters. Women by their witness and interaction can assist the priest in extracting or bringing to the surface his sympathetic side and gentleness. The failure to properly acknowledge and treat women will result in a coarsening of priestly manners. He becomes distant, authoritarian and legalistic.

While celibate, priests are increasingly surrounded by women. Women are both employees of the Church and volunteers. I am not speaking here simply of housekeepers and cooks. Married and single women are catechists, youth ministers, liturgical musicians, readers, extraordinary ministers of Holy Communion, altar servers, secretaries, parish business managers, parish associates, etc. This is in addition to traditional service in altar guilds, rosary groups, sodalities, etc. Women work and are present in rectories, parish schools, and in our churches (both in the pews and assisting the priest at the altar). Most parish priests find themselves more surrounded by females than males. Women among the laity have increasingly taking up the slack from the diminishing numbers of women religious, although nuns and sisters will always have an important part to play in the life of the Church. I make these lists to demonstrate that the priest does not and cannot escape the presence of women. They are integral components of the Church. The celibate priest, as the Church’s man, must be comfortable working with and for them. They will be his coworkers and friends. Having said all this, he should be ever cognizant of the boundaries that must never be crossed. He has to be prepared to exhibit a certain distance or even coldness if a certain boundary line of intimacy is skirted. Some women will fall in love with priests. He must let them know by word and manner that he is not interested. Priests will also find themselves falling in love; it is here that clergy need to be reminded of their celibacy so as to create the necessary space for fidelity in their vocation. His priestly work and the life of prayer and worship are his shield from falling. Nurturing his friendships within the presbyterate is also encouraged; there is a certain solidarity and understanding among men who share the same life and dedication to the Lord.

Priestly Celibacy: Evolution of a Sacrament

If the celibate priesthood represents the providential development of this sacrament, would not the general allowance for married priests represent a denial of this grace-filled trajectory? We are creatures who live in time and it is only in the fullness of time that the mysteries of God and of his Church are unraveled. The deposit of faith is fixed but not stagnant. The priesthood must be understood within the context of its purpose and history. I personally fail to see how a reversal can be permitted. It would seem to be a movement against the stream of history and the retrogression of holy orders to an earlier stage of development or appreciation. Our thoughts these days are so much about what the Church and the priesthood used to be. It may be that some critics are so desperate for the damage to be repaired that they would risk further harm by making more radical shifts. Pope Benedict XVI ardently sought to restore balance and to give an interpretation of Vatican II through the eyes of tradition and not modernity. As to what approach we are now taking, only time and prayer will show. However, whatever we do, the needs of the Church and the value of the priesthood should be given full measure over self-seeking desires and personal or particularized relationships. Marriage might make a priest very happy but it would probably cost the Church. I am not convinced by arguments that it would enrich this vocation in any significant manner to offset what would be lost.

Priestly Celibacy: Obligatory or Optional?

We are repeatedly reminded that the Eastern rites have both married and celibate priests. But the fact that most Catholic laity in the United States seem unaware of this is evidence that this witness is largely off the radar. Instead, it is the preference for marriage among the many visible Protestant clergy that catches our notice. It is here that most will make the comparison. Some denominations will not even commission or ordain men unless they are already married. Such is viewed as a divine command and a source for both maturity and stability. It is for this reason that it makes national headlines when married Episcopalian and Lutheran ministers are received and ordained in the Catholic Church. A new model of ministry is being introduced into Catholicism and one that is both condoned by modernity and challenging to our accepted vision of the priesthood. Some find this prospect exciting. Others find in it an ominous and frightening omen. Speaking for myself, I usually err on the side of human freedom; but about this issue, I may not seem consistent. There are certain basic values and rights about which human freedom is limited. What is the will of God in all this? What is best for the Church? I would keep matters as they are with a priestly celibacy that is both mandatory and absolute.

Priestly Celibacy: Changing More Than Rules

It seems to me that the discussion about married priests is too quick to dismiss the depth of meaning given the celibate priesthood. Celibacy is more than a discipline; it is the chief modifier and visible component to the priesthood in the Roman Catholic Church. Indeed, mandatory celibacy has come to personify our priesthood. This is why we must approach this debate very carefully. Most of our priestly men identify themselves— their personality, their station as they face God, their place in both the secular and faith communities— by their stance with celibacy. In other words, it might be a discipline, but it has come to permeate and inform everything that makes them priests. While thousands of men left the priesthood in the 1960’s and 1970’s to get married, realizing that the discipline was not changing any time soon; now we run the risk of a new exodus should celibacy become optional. A tiny few married priests from the Episcopalian church is one thing; a wholesale batch of married men and the return of men who left to get married (unlikely) would be another. It would shake the priesthood as we know it to its very foundation. As I wrote before, I also fear that we would needlessly hurt good men who remained at their posts as celibate sentinels, even when such was a terrible and costly sacrifice. Heartstrings were tugged, they fell in love, and yet, they remained faithful to their promises. Celibacy can be a great joy but it can also be a source of heart-rending tears. Whatever the Church decides to do, we must not be blind or insensitive to the cost paid by the diocesan priesthood. We would be changing more than rules.

Priestly Celibacy: Too High a Price for Women?

Given how we understand the priesthood and the demands that we make upon our clergy in the Roman Rite, would the allowance for married priests constitute a violation of human justice? If there is the fear of breaching the seal of confession while talking during sleep, would the couple not be obliged to keep separate bedrooms? The demands of parishioners would take precedence over the needs of his wife and children. Is this fair to them? Given that his first wife, the Church, must always be given her way; what resentments might emerge from the second wife and his family? There is a moral quandary because spouses and families should not be deprived of their due. Right now we have a few married priests (approved of course) who keep their families in neighborhoods apart from where the men serve. Their salaries are enhanced and they are treated differently than celibate clergy. Indeed, I have known several over the years who housed their families in adjacent dioceses or across state lines. What if all priests were treated the same? Could married clergy raise families on a salary rated below poverty level? I was assigned to one parish that was surrounded by drug pushers, pimps with prostitutes and crack houses. My deacon was pistol whipped outside the church doors, the rectory was robbed and dealers shot two bullets through my bedroom window. Would we send a married priest into such an environment? Would they obey and go?

Knowing the life of a traditional Catholic priest, would it really be love to want to subject a woman to the sacrifices and absences that would come along with marriage to one? Even the military man has a term of service. The situation with the priest would be permanent. Several years ago we had a crisis with our local police. The tremendous strain on relationships gave the officers a high divorce rate. It was bad enough that their women had to accept the dangerous profile of their jobs but then the city mandated that police employed had to live within the boundaries of the District. Housing in the better part of town was expensive. The men did not want to house their families in the ghetto or where gangs might identify their wives and children for assault and kidnapping. A number of men tried to skirt the new rules by taking out post office boxes in the city and lying about where they actually lived. They were desperate but good men. Priests have always lived where they worked. The late Archbishop Sheen pressed upon priests that they should live no better than the people they serve. This has often been a point of comparison between Protestant ministers and Catholic priests. Priests must always be accessible or available. They do not work strictly assigned hours. What might this do to a family? The demands are quite different, but the Lutherans have married ministers and they are rightly distressed about the high divorce rate among their pastors. Do we really want to go this way? I noted before that the first married Episcopalian priest who was received and ordained in the United States is now divorced. His wife left him, saying that his prior ministry did not prepare adequately for his life and ministry as a Roman Catholic priest.