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  • The blog header depicts an important and yet mis-understood New Testament scene, Jesus flogging the money-changers out of the temple. I selected it because the faith that gives us consolation can also make us very uncomfortable. Both Divine Mercy and Divine Justice meet in Jesus. Priests are ministers of reconciliation, but never at the cost of truth. In or out of season, we must be courageous in preaching and living out the Gospel of Life. The title of my blog is a play on words, not Flogger Priest but Blogger Priest.

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3. Forbidding Divorce & Adultery

The Third Scurrilous Mystery

When it came to marriage, Jesus raised the bar and angered many. Indeed, there are still people upset with what he had to say about marriage, divorce, remarriage, adultery and the celibate life. He tells his listeners that Moses allowed a writ of divorce because of the hardness of their hearts. However, this was not the way it was supposed to be. The pattern of Genesis was one man and woman, becoming one flesh, never to be torn asunder. Multiple wives and/or marriages were thus condemned. Divorce was absolutely prohibited. Women suffered under the law of divorce, often making a woman destitute in her abandonment. This would often force these women into adulterous relationships so that they could survive. Jesus saw the great injustice in this. Promises were made to be kept. Just as Christ would keep his covenant with his bride the Church, so too were other husbands and wives called to constant fidelity. When the disciples react to his words as hard to hear, saying it might be better not to marry at all, he says that celibate love is not given to all. But he does elevate a celibacy that renounces “marriage for the sake of the kingdom of heaven.” Given that Jews associated divine blessing with wife, children and wealth; he was turning their accepted understanding on its head.