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NEW MESSAGES/HOMILIES CHRISTIAN REFLECTIONS DEFENDING THE FAITH
Hello Father
I was looking online and I’ve found your page.
I don’t know what to do now. I’m living in Italy to study, but I can’t see myself graduating from this course. My parents have always wanted for me to study and made big efforts for it, no matter the course I chose, but I think I chose the wrong thing and I don’t know how to change it now. I am doing archeology, but I’m sure I should have done something language-related:
At the same time, I have received an opportunity to go work in Greece, but that would mean giving up (at least temporarily) on my studies. By going there to work I would get to work in different languages and learn a language.
Both by changing course and by going away to work I will disappoint my family… but at least working I won’t be a financial burden to them. And by studying I would take one more year of their help. My family has a decent condition, but I hate to depend on them, but at the same time until now they’ve only wanted me to study and every-time I feel like I’m failing by them.
What should I do? I keep praying, but I don’t understand
Should I continue this bachelor, should I try to change course, or should I try to move to work in Greece? How can I address this to my family?
I being haunted by an astral planer named lashawn Polk how can I stop her.
spirituality have a cat he ran away middle of the bught he jump on the wind shield and his eyes was all black and his meow was different his presence felt different and he meowed odly like trying to mimic the actual cat vouce and it sounded different open the door think thats the cat when my cat has green eyes and i looked back on the wrong shoes cause it didn’t come and it disappeared disappeared
Hello Father,
I have a problem that I’ve been trying to resolve. Thought I should ask you.
I’m a divorced woman and older now.
I recently joined a very nice parish. For some time the pastor has been acting strange. I sometimes catch him staring at me and even spying. It’s become apparent that there is a problem. He’s a fine dedicated priest. But I’m wondering now if I should perhaps leave.
Please let me know your thoughts. Thank you.
Good evening Father, I am a young believer in God, raised by my parents to be so. However recently, I’ve had some doubts on whether God is real or not. I believe he wants the best for me and humanity. If this were so, why didn’t God create cute femboy furry’s along with Adam and Eve? This world could’ve been so much better if there were cute dragon boys around. Is there any help you can give me as an answer to why God did not create any Furry’s? I really want to put these doubts to rest, but I’m ashamed of asking the Father at my own church. God bless you.
Hello, Father Joe, I would like to ask what were the Baltic Crusades and why did the Teutonic Knights and its fellow crusaders failed in this campaign. Thank you
Is it wrong to drink before saying The Chaplet of the Di?vine Mercy prayer
On 1 Corinthians Paul says women are to wear veils.
Today some do and some don’t.
Should they?
I recently read on a site about the catechism, where a person saw a child with a eucharist and told him to put it in his mouth and he didn’t, and the father of the child took the Eucharist and put it in a shirt. There’s a lot of discussion about whether or not he’s actually Catholic why he was planning to do with that if anything, etc. etc. What is the appropriate act if you see this happened?
Hi Father Joseph,
I am a semi-pro ficiton writer and these are some silly questions about the Seal of Confession in cases of future harm; I imagine I’m not the first to pull at this thread. I understand the absolute nature of the Seal as it regards the identity of the penitent, but also that Priests are neither robots nor idiots. Is an anonymous call to the cops always an option regarding ticking time bombs, etc? Given that this may well set the wheels in motion that ultimately reveal the identity of the (so-called [in this case]) penitent? And if MI-6 traces the call or otherwise indentifies the priest they can easily search the CCTV from the church door on the day of the tip-off, potentially identifying the bomber? What about the mad scientist who infected himself last year and has been passively spreading the deadly COVID-23 to everyone he meets, including the priest, and the clock is ticking on its 15-month incubation period? Even if he’s penitent, he can’t uninfect the world. I doubt a crackpot-sounding anonymous call to the CDC is sufficient to protect the public, but adding the credibility of the priestly source will leave a trail pointing to prisoner #557216, Dr Fiendly, known to use Father Ted as his confessor. (Obviously these villians have some work to do before getting absolution.)
Hello Father,
I wanted to ask you opinion about a sin I confessed. Last summer I went to the lake for a jog. At the last minute I decided to take off my ring before running. I felt like I did this intentionally to seek attention and as a married woman I know this is not okay. At the time I had been reading extreme romance novels and I believe these are extremely dangerous to our psyche.
When I went to make my confessional list I wasn’t exactly sure how to confess the sin. I confessed to having a lustful heart with a look at me vain attitude on 1 occasion and also added in the circumstance of being married. I didn’t explain taking off my ring. Part of me was embarrassed to share the story but part of me also didn’t think the action itself, taking of the ring, was the sin. I believe it was a sin of heart. Looking back I just want to make sure you don’t think I invalidated my confession by not bringing up taking off my ring. I was embarrassed but also know you have to confess in kind and number and didn’t think that detail would have done that. Thanks for all your insight!
Hi Father, I’ve already done everything that you stated would help and I have done it for many years but the sacraments do not help. You said I treat God like a genii, surely Mary did the same at Cana and all those in the gospels that asked for a miracle, so why is it different for them than it is for me? If God doesn’t want to help me and just cause me constant pain then the least he could do is tell me why he is treating me this way but he won’t do that either. Why has he forced me to live a cruel life, I didn’t want to exist and I don’t want to exist after death, it’s obvious he will be waiting to punish me when I die regardless of what I do. Surely, the many decades of faith, hope, love and trust have been a complete waste of time? He is kind to other catholics so why not me?
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They just arrested a man here in Las Vegas who was making and watching what is called ANIMAL CRUSH VIDEOS. This is where people do horrible disgusting torture things to animals until they die. How can there be a God out there. If there is a God, and now I am beginning to doubt that there is, how can he let these things go on. I thought God was supposed to be good. These poor animals go through such horrible painful deaths. Please explain to me why he lets these things happen. If you can.
Good evening Father, I haven’t been to confession for some years. I am ashamed to accuse certain sins, such as how specific should I be with the sins of unclean thoughts? Then Father, I think I made private vows, but I’m not sure, however they concerned trivial things, I don’t know if they are valid or not. I don’t want to go to hell for votes I don’t know if they are valid. Thank you, God bless You.
Hello Father Joe,
In the past I have made many confessions dealing with impure thoughts, lust, and a look at me attitude. I know I would have included the number of times and the sin. However, recently I was reading online and came to realize that you should also mention if you are married or not and if the person you are having impure thoughts about is married or not. When I made these confessions, I think my husband would have come up in the confessions because I am usually mentioning ways to improve my marriage. However, I think I typically confessed the sin as having impure, lustful thoughts on X occasions. I thought this was complete, but now realize I should have added the extra circumstances. My questions is… I tend to be very scrupulous and am always analyzing the sins I have committed and confessed to see if I was detailed enough. I don’t want to cycle down a path of trying to go back and fix all of these confessions. I believe I did my best in those moments and want to trust in God’s mercy. Moving forward, I now know I would need to add those extra circumstances should those sins ever arise again. Can I let the past be the past and trust that those confessions were okay?
Hello Fr. Joe,
Thank you for your answers.
Just curious. Other than the Bible and Catechism, do you have any favorite devotionals for daily prayer and/or supplemental reading?
sincerely,
eric
Will you acknowledged if y received my text recently
Will God honor my request if I think I am doing the thingy
Thing. I also suffer from scrupulosity and and bro because of this I was told that I do not have the freedom in making decisions
Thank you
Thank you for your answer .I looked in the Catechism and it seems to say blashemy of thr Holy Spirit is being impenitent until death .CCC1864.You are saying blsnhemy of the Holy Spirit is a particular sin i think .I am a bit confused .
Why won’t God answer the prayers of catholics that pray daily for many years but happily answers prayers of other catholics? Why won’t he protect us from the demonic when we ask him? Will he care if I kill myself other than being angry at me for doing so? I’ve lost all hope.
Is eating pork a sin? I’ve heard a lot of times that it is and it isn’t. I thank you for the answer in advance.
Father, in one of you previous answers you stated that that someone who could be guilty of blasphemy of the Holy Spirit by disparaging the Mass etc. I thought blasphemy of the Holy Spirit was final impenitence. Are you meaning an unforgivable sin in this case? Thank you for your efforts in helping others
Hi. My girlfriend left me over a year ago and so far every relationship I’ve had romantically after her has been very problematic. Is God telling me to return to my ex? Why won’t God let me move on from my ex when I keep praying and begging him to let me move on?
Hello Fr. Joe,
Two or three years ago I was gifted a book – a book that I suggested as a possible gift. It was a brief summary of mythology. Upon reading the book it was clear that the author had biased comments, inaccuracies and even included errors on the origins of Christianity and possibly Judaism, although I can’t remember for sure. I know our faith, but am bothered at having the book on my shelf especially since it contains falsities about our faith. Also worried that the book may lead others astray if I give it away or sell it to a used bookstore… How should one tackle issues like this – a gift that contains errors? Should I dispose of the book, or sell it to a used bookstore and include an index card inside regarding the errors, or should I just keep the book since it was a gift, and ignore its errors? Thank you Fr. Joe.
New christian(?) here. No affiliation.
God created everything. Then Adam and Eve sinned against God and fell away from His grace. God knew this would happen. So he gave the law to Moses. Not to give us a path to Him but to teach us that we cannot reach salvation on our own. Then (and He knew He would do all this before He created anything) He sent His son Jesus Christ to pay for our sins. If we believe all this AND regret all the sins we have commited AND humbly ask Jesus to forgive us, then the Holy Spirit will come and live in our hearts and we will be saved, and once we are saved our salvation will not be taken away from us.
My question is (other than did I get the above right) is that I am still a sinner. I WILL sin again. Trust me on that one. And as I reread my words I am very confident that I regret every sin i’ve ever done but I worry that I am not ‘humbly’ asking Jesus for forgiveness. Which, to me, would seem to indicate a lack of faith in His authority. Somewhere in Romans it says not to question ‘The Potter” for making one clay pot for good and one clay pot for bad. How do I know I am not one of the bad clay pots?